Kingsley’s Head of School, Steve Farley, reflects on parent partnership, Next School interviews, and more!

What’s something that’s inspiring you right now?

This fall, I’ve been a student again—enrolled in the ACT Leadership + Performance Coaching Program through Brown University. I’m learning alongside an extraordinary group of professionals from around the world who are dedicated to helping leaders in every field become more aware of their impact and make choices that lead to transformative results. Through online learning, in-person sessions, and evening and weekend coaching with practice clients, I’ve reflected deeply on strengthening my own servant-leadership approach and supporting aspiring teacher-leaders and nonprofit educators in improving their performance. I’m energized by the chance to learn anew—and reminded daily of the courage our students and teachers show each time they begin again.

What are you looking forward to at Kingsley in November and December?

Beyond my affection for Thanksgiving (#TeamPumpkinPie #MyFamilyFinallyLetsMePlayHolidaySongs), November brings two of my favorite Kingsley traditions—our annual Alumni Panel and Family-Child Visit Day. Both offer unmistakable, see-it-for-yourself evidence of the impact of a Kingsley education.

While fall goal-setting conferences invite caregivers into classrooms for conversation, Family-Child Visit Day lets students lead—sharing their excitement for learning and guiding parents through the Montessori materials that anchor the early years. The Alumni Panel, meanwhile, offers a glimpse of what’s ahead: an opportunity for families to imagine their child’s future through the voices of our confident, grounded graduates. Notably, our panelists receive only a list of possible questions in advance, but no coaching on how to answer. It’s an authentic testament to our confidence in them as thoughtful and empathetic representatives of Kingsley.

Kingsley Sixth Grade students are in the middle of their Next School interviews and test preparation. What advice do you have for them?

Supporting our Sixth Graders through this exciting next-step process is one of my favorite fall experiences. Drawing from many years helping students navigate school transitions, I often offer this advice:

• Be open. Each school visit is a chance to imagine new possibilities. You may naturally have preferences, but you’re fortunate to have choices that will help you thrive.
• Know how you learn best. Before each visit, reflect on when you feel most engaged—whether collaborating in groups, problem-solving independently, or learning by doing—and look for those opportunities on each campus.
• Celebrate your strengths. Don’t be afraid to share what makes you proud. Ask questions that highlight your creativity, curiosity, and kindness. Every school you visit will be lucky to meet you.

Between Curriculum Nights, Moving Ups, and Family Child Visit Day, parents are asked to be on campus a lot! Why is that?

It’s true, we love seeing our parents on campus! And that’s intentional. Parent partnership is a defining feature of the Kingsley experience. When families feel at home here—through events, learning sessions, or volunteer opportunities—they’re more likely to share their talents with our students, collaborate with fellow caregivers, and engage with our administrative team as thought partners. We often describe Kingsley as a small-town school in the heart of the city, and that sense of community wouldn’t exist without our extraordinary parents.

And just for fun…

What’s your go-to breakfast? 

During the week, I keep it simple—an iced cold brew (year-round!) and a piece of fruit. But on weekends, I’m a devoted diner enthusiast: the hash benedict at The Galley Kitchen in Southie and the French toast at Mike’s City Diner in the South End are unbeatable.

We saw you wrapped up in toilet paper at Fall Fest. Tell us more!

Mum(my)’s the word! (Couldn’t resist.)

If you were a fruit or vegetable, which would you be?

An avocado! The chill philosopher. Cool: Smooth, creamy, effortlessly stylish—the brunch influencer of fruits. Quirky: Technically a berry with one big seed. Who knew? Kind: Full of heart-healthy goodness.

Have you watched KPop Demon Hunters?

Not yet—but if it helps me master some K-Pop dance moves, I might finally be ready for the next student showcase!

This has been the Kingsley Blog: Head of School Edition. Thanks for reading!